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   By: Pierre Basson

Does your lover walk around with a sticker on their head to tell you they’re in a loving or in a non-loving mood? Do you walk around with a badge on your chest that says “Please love me, I need it NOW!”http://www.living4loving.com
So what does real love look like? How do you recognize when you experience it?
It sounds so obvious but it’s not. Let’s check that out. Make a mental list of your answers to the following questions.
Who have you loved today? (List them in your mind – maybe your boss, a colleague or family?)
How do YOU know that you loved them. How can you be sure it was love?
(Was it love in your attitude towards them?
Was it perhaps caring decisions that you made towards them?
Was it a tender touch or a kind word that you communicated?
What did you do?)
You may have transmitted love, but did they experience it? Did they experience it as loving? This is the difficult part, because we have little or no control over other people’s reactions to our love acts.http://www.living4loving.com
It is so easy to presume that because we loved, they automatically felt loved. You may even feel that they now owe it to love you back, but perhaps they didn’t even identify your loving. Have you ever experienced that your loving was ignored, as though you were invisible. That no-one notices how loving you are – especially if you are a husband!
If at the end of your day you can list who it was that you loved and how then you are fortunate. For most of us one day just flows into the next, and we are hardly aware of when loving is happening or when it is not, simply because we live without feedback about how we are progressing with our loving.
I want to challenge you to change this by taking some specific action!
For the next five nights, starting tonight, I want you to do three things to help you review your loving. You’ll be surprised how this feedback will take your loving to a new level.
Firstly, take a piece of paper and on it list all the people you attempted to love today, leaving some space between them for comments.
Secondly, Next to each name list what you did to love them, whether it be an action, your attitude or your time.
Thirdly next to each one list how you think they received your loving, and what makes you think that – for example what they said, their body language, how they reacted.
Then pray for them that they will feel loved and happy by your loving.
Do that for the next few nights and you’ll suddenly know love in places and ways you have never seen it before.
Remember that much of the impact of your love is lost, if your loved ones do not FEEL loved by your loving actions. If in doubt, why not ask them whether they experienced love or not by what you did, and try new ways to communicate your love with them.

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Until next time this Pierre Basson from www.living4loving.com saying “Everyone is looking for real love with a name and a face to it, and it’s you.”

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